Don't feed the troll

If you have been on the internet for more than a week, there is a good chance you know what a troll is. Little known fact, there are trolls in real life too, thought we mostly just call them dicks. Be they online or in real life, I have a few tips that will make dealing with them simpler.

*Never get upset.
The more upset you get, the worse it is going to get. People getting upset is like crack to a troll.

*Never respond.
If you can avoid it, don't reply to anything a troll says. It's like dealing with a middle school bully, just ignore them.

*Learn to laugh it off.
When you get trolled, just laugh it off and try to learn from it.

*Find your own way to deal with trolls.
Not all methods work for everyone or on every troll. Find one that works for you.

Well that's it for today. If you have any questions hit me up on Tumblr.

Thoughts for the Weekend:Some People are Stupid

What gave birth to my "Thoughts for the Weekend" this weekend is the fact that I am not able to understand why girls like Rihanna would stay with or get back with or even just stay in contact with total JERKS like Chris Brown who beat the crap out of them, or cheat on them, or just treat them like crap.

Yes, like almost 1 in 3 women, I have been in an abusive relationship at one point in my life. What I have never understood, is not staying, I understood that because I stayed a LOT longer than I should have, No what I don't understand is going back. Once you get out of the abusive relationship why the HELL would you go back? This is why I think women are stupid.

Also, I cant quite grasp why you would want to stay with some one you don't love. Some one you seem to hate so much that you would physically or psychologically abuse them. Yes, as much as I hate to admit it, I did cheat on a boyfriend once, and as much as I feel the need to defend myself and explain why I would do it in the first place, it was still wrong. Once I also got so upset at another boyfriend that I slapped him. Yet unlike most people who hit someone they love, I did not say I was sorry and beg to be forgiven. I saw the fact that I had just done something that was, not only very wrong, but that was also totally unlike me. In seeing this, I ended the relationship. How could I be with someone that had caused me to respond to him in such as way?

I get it, you cant help who you love. What I don't understand is how you can love someone that keeps hurting you. Someone that only cares about you when it suits them. That to me is why some people are stupid.

Yes, I know this is one of my longer blogs, but I feel strongly about this topic, and I feel this will not be the last blog I do about abuse.

If you or someone you love is being abused, please visit this website, and seek help....Before its too late.